A piece of advice for a future post maybe. You may ignore it if you wish, I don't mind.
When you next ask for songs that are similar to something else, and people reply. Try replying in a positive manner. If someone replied with 4 songs, and 3 of them were total shit in your opinion, why not just respond with a "Hey thanks. I will take a listen to those." followed by "I liked song 4 that you recommended, thanks bud!". Just let the negativeness slide for a little bit. See if the vibe in your thread is more to your liking then?
I am not saying that you should be a drone and just reply that manner ALL of the time (that would be boring), just to try it here or there.
Again, just advice from a stranger. Do with it what you will.