I think I do, maybe you should try to explain in more words.
No, I understand.Back in the days I started to listen to metal, and the more extreme the bigger the kick, Couldn't stand trance music at all, most of my friends listened to trance and after a big while I started to dig some trance, but I did'nt find that much cd's I realy could enjoy, and thereafter I discovered Goa and I was hooked from the first time.Think it was Infected - Classical Mushroom.
But now I'm more mature and listen to other genres to, still not normal trance though, I can't relate to it.Only very few tracks I can dig, but I wouldn't buy any.
I think when you become adult, you start to care more what other adults might think of you, like in a small town they judge you directly.